They say we fall into love, as if the floor underneath us had given way. Do we have any control over this enveloping feeling... do I have any control over how I feel about you? This uncertainty hurts, and I know that expectation is something which we must distance ourselves from, but to open myself, … Continue reading Where does love live?
Oh how I love her so; out of reach, but I don't know if it's forever. One tells themselves it's forever, so as to enable moving on, to make it easier, to let go and replant - to grow. But distance, temporal nor physical seems to separate us so. To and fro, like the waves … Continue reading Hope is a dangerous game.
As we move through life, we experience pain, trial and tribulation. Negative experiences, bad relationships, failed attempts, financial difficulties, difficulty relating to and reconciling with parents and other relatives; difficult housemates, co-workers, bosses, and confusion over our life purpose, just to name a few. The adversity that we encounter during life has been presented to … Continue reading Trial, wisdom; test.
As we make changes in our lives, in our habits, thoughts, beliefs and behaviours we change externally too. Over time, we begin to reap the fruits of our labour, materially, physically, emotionally and in particular, relationally. The relationships in our life serve a purpose, be it emotionally, financially, or physically, and so, as our needs … Continue reading Onwards and upwards: connecting different.
Non-monogamy is bullshit. People have mistaken sex for relationship, and oh how wrong they are. They purport that one person cannot not satisfy all their needs, but, is one person supposed to? Isn't that what friends are for? Energy redirected away from your romantic relationship is depth that cannot be obtained, intimacy that cannot be … Continue reading Intimacy amplification: non-monogamy is bullshit.
You can't begin to live until you're not afraid to die, You must burn who you are to become who you may be, You have to leap in order to fly; a leap of faith, and I hope you'll catch me. A guarded heart is one that cannot feel, A guarded heart is no heart … Continue reading To live, is to die.
Competition is a silly business. Joining a category of many, standardisation of rules and aims, and let the gladiators do battle, trade blows, fatten balance sheets and crash equity prices. Nay, I disagree; what a pointless game: why compete? Why not create your own category and be the sole player, in a category of one … Continue reading Category of one.